From the time we are born, we learn to perceive. In childhood, it can be the difference between right and wrong, good and bad, etc. As we grow, our perceptions can be based on the size of our clothes, our house, our checkbook, our "toys." Because of our perceptions, we work diligently to accumulate what we believe shows our successes or how we "measure up." When we fall short, we become disheartened, resentful and sometimes, angry. These ideas of perceptions are, in reality, limiting.
Perceptions can be also be referred to being "open minded" or "closed minded". Some can perceive farther than their own back yard, some however cannot. We do this for many reasons. Some perceptions are a product of our exposure to outside influences. Some perceptions are a product of life experiences. Sometimes, our perceptions are our safety zone. Even the definitions of triumph, miracle and epiphany are a matter of perception and depending on our perception, we apply them even unfairly.
It is clear to many to perceive the triumph of one running a race and winning a blue ribbon. It is not so easy to perceive the triumph of one suffering from depression just getting out of bed. However, it is a triumph.
One can easily accept and perceive a person with a disease suddenly being cured as being a miracle. It may take stretching the mind to perceive how all the conditions had to be just right in order for a tree to grow which are not much different from the conditions needed for a child to be born. This also is a miracle.
Many experiencing a near death experience make notable changes to their life claiming an epiphany. For others, a mere toss of the coin and a call of "heads or tails" could change them forever. Yes, you can call this an epiphany as well.
Perception, open or closed, is a choice. The possibility of allowing another perception, can open a world you may have never seen. It may awaken your compassion, empathy and tolerance to accept that all things are not absolute. It may at first be uncomfortable but being honest, most changes are at first. It may lead to acceptance of other people, other religions, other beliefs. It may even lead to acceptance of yourself.
As a child delivers a dandelion with love, joy and pride, the receiver no longer sees a weed, but instead, sees the beautiful flower and accepts it in the very same way. | 
